Account got hacked and disabled by the hacker due to them changing the age on the account and support isnt helping

so my discord account got hacked by clicking a link to a “game” i was asked to try, and they threatened to expose me and used a personal picture as leverage on me, i have all the emails and proof they were trying to get more accounts using mine. i have tried to get the account back using discord support, but the account got "disabled" (i can see the user and pfp being changed every now and then thanks to my friends keeping tabs on the account.) due to them changing the age on the account. Now i cant get the age verified to get started on recovering my account because i dont have the discord discriminator (#0000) of the account due to it not being visible and I've never needed to keep it and im certain its been changed from what i originally had it set as. ive tried to get proper help from support but im met with the same copy pasted response i need actual help getting my account back it has valuable memories on it to friends who are no longer alive. if any one has any advice or help id really appreciate it