Mobile Video calls are horrible

If I'm in portrait mode, and the camera that's being used by the other user is sending as landscape, it'll zoom in to fill my screen! The only time I CAN see the camera properly in portrait view is if there's EXACTLY 3 people in the call. Typing in landscape has always felt clunky to me, so being forced to switch back and forth between having my phone sideways and upright to type makes it impossible to video call and chat with anything less than both hands at pretty much all times so I'm not dropping my phone every 10 seconds. Besides that, why, pray tell, is the view call button at THE TOP OF THE SCREEN? If you have a longer phone, and anywhere shorter than cryptid-like fingers you can't reach it without using your other hand or sliding your grip up on the phone.

Edit: I tabbed back to discord after posting this and realized that the background colors in the group call for anyone that doesn't have their camera on is extremely obnoxious, and I can't focus on someone's face when I have a giant red or purple rectangle right next to them..