Accessibility for Sound Sensitive Individuals

The notifications sounds are jarring. I don't want to have to keep going on Do Not Disturb and have nothing. But if I leave notifications on then I end up getting heavily overstimulated when I'm talking with friends because I do other things between messages and the jarring LOUD sound rips me away.

This is a mental struggle because there is no easy way to resolve this on my end that wouldn't be more work than just suffering with it. Just adding a ‘notification sound volume’ slider would be an absolutely simple solution from my perspective. So everyone could adjust it to be the right volume for them. From nothing to what it is now.

I'd like to talk to my friends. But I would like to not have to choose between forgetting to check if they text and being so overwhelmed I get sent into mental breakdowns.

And as seen here there are many other people who would like this going back years:
https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/community/posts/360055397852-Adjust-notification-sound-and-ringtone-volume-individually?input_string=Accessibility%20for%20Sound%20Sensitive%20Individuals