Allow the "listen in" and "connect to spotify" buttons to be disabled when displaying spotify status

I don't know why companies are so obsessed with sharing all our private information with random people online, Snapchat, Facebook and Insta started this trend of telling everyone what we're doing every minute of every day. Now discord thinks I want random people to see my Spotify username (which is my real name… because what else would it be?) when they press the “connect to spotify” button on my status. 

I want to display the song I am listening to so others can see, but I don't want people to have the option to listen in or connect to my spotify, and consequently see my Spotify username (my real name). There's no harm in making this a feature, and it's actually the way it used to be on Discord but then they had to go ahead and invade everyone's privacy a little more. Just let me turn it off without turning my whole spotify activity status off please.