Private DMs Change

Hi! I'm a smol streamer on Twitch, and unfortunately over time have had a lot of situations where a viewers will talk to me in DMs instead of my public server, and over time have turned that conversation to a romantic/sexual topic. I really want to avoid this by turning on the friends only privacy option, but will then get questions from people asking me why I've blocked them. To avoid this, I have my DMs open but now get questioned by people about why I'm ignoring their messages.

I'd really love it if when trying to talk to someone with high security settings, instead of the bot suggesting that you may have been blocked, if it was clearer that some people only accept DMs from friends.