Suggestion: More options for "Allow direct messages from server members"

Hey, I really enjoy the option to disable DMs from server members, but I was wondering if there could be a few changes made to it?

Clyde tells you when you open the DM:
The title pretty much says it all; Clyde tells you that the user has this disabled right as you open the DM. Instead of telling you after you attempt to send a message, Clyde cuts to the chase and just says it in the first place.

One-message chance:
If a user has this enabled, they can also enable a new setting: "Allow server members one message before you accept". It's pretty simple; the users can send one message to get the point across, and if the receiving user thinks it's worth the time of day, they can accept the DM, and initiate an actual conversation with the sending user. This would also probably work better with the previous suggestion, so that users don't accidentally waste it.