Discord Partnership Change - Tweak Discovery Option

Hello!

I'm very excited to maybe one day have a partnered server, however, I've always been kind of cautious as to who I let in. Even so, my server has over 200~ members and I was wondering if there was a way to tweak discovery?

1. My server is only for 16+ people; maybe discord can ask for the age of the person's account and only show servers that allow all ages?

2. Instead of directly inviting people to the server; discovery can be like 'Hey! This server exists, check their website on how to get in (website)

3. Remove discovery as a whole requirement? I like to make sure there are no raids or people who are homophobic entering my server, and we achieve this by having an application process where mods contact people who want to join. 

thoughts? I just think this could be a good option for smaller communities.