id like to hide what game i play from some servers but show it at others

there are simmilar posts. but not exactly what im after. id like to select the server where the "show game name" is shown. as its said. gaming communities and job communities. it like to seperate this.. lets take deep rock galactic as an example. here there is a bonus if you join the discord commmunity. for this bonus to work 100% you need to activate the "activity status" to show this properly. id like to have this checked. but again. on other servers i dont whant to list what games im playing.... this is a function that we need badly