Ability to select which servers are connected to on device

I'd like to be able to have a list of servers that I do not connect on the device.

I'd like to not send a status of "active" to those servers, not get notifications from them on the device.

Use case - would like to use discord on my work pc, but want to minimize distractions and notification settings do not support per-device settings (and they sound worse than "not connect to a server" solution.

End status that I would like to achieve is - direct messages are enabled (maybe only with friends?) + connected to a server or two out of N that I have joined to.