Problem with sending pictures

I have noticed that the feature that automaticaly cancles posts that for the systeme seem inapropriate is a bit sensitive and has now already canled multipile jokes I wanted to send to some friends. Sadly in the server I was writing we cant figure out who has the feature activated in order to ask them if they could deactivate it. So I sugest instead of automaticaly canceling every post that has been seen by the systeme as inapropriate, just make it so people who have the feauture activated cant see the message/picture/gif if the systeme says its inapropriate.