Whitelisting/Blacklisting User and Servers for Invisible/DND

Ive seen a couple of posts about “Appearing offline to certain people” or “appearing offline to certain servers” but I want to dive into this thought significantly deeper than others and include Do Not Disturb (DND) into the mix, allow me to elaborate.

In its current state, DND and Invisible applies to ALL users that can see your profile. I propose the ability to choose certain users to be the “exceptions”.
You would be given the option to either:

• Option A (Blacklisting): Be online by default and choose which servers/users to appear as Invisible or DND.
• Option B (Whitelisting): Be Invisible or DND by default and choose which servers/users to appear as Online.

This is in my mind at least, what I foresee most people wanting.

Please feel free to tell me what you think about my proposed way of thinking and any additions that you think would be useful!

You arent required to read below unless if you want my personal opinions on why I want to have such an option in Discord

For some people, this is seen as a breach of trust or “being a snake” and that we should simply block or mute that person, this is far from what we want and were it so easy, we would of done that already. People like myself do not want to deceive people, we are simply introverts or people who need to get work done. It isn't that we dislike the people we appear offline or DND to, its that we don't want to come off as rude for either ignoring them or telling them we don't want to talk at the moment. I am very much an introvert and have some very close friends who understand and respect that sometimes I simply need some me time. They are free to talk to me whenever they wish as they do not talk constantly as if their life depends on it, they keep DM's direct, concise and to the point.

In summary: Sometimes I want to just recharge my social battery, and sometimes I just want privacy from my co-workers or certain other mischievous individuals so they dont know that I was playing my favorite game for 6 hours straight. Sometimes I just want to talk to one group of friends one day.

Sometimes I just want peace.