Latest PTB build feedback

I've been using the PTB for a while (stable build won't work properly on my device) and I've been unhappy with a lot of the changes in the latest build. Here is a list of the changes i dislike.
-Bigger space between messages in a message group and removal of the line between the message groups
For this one, I can see why some people would prefer it but i just find it harder to look at. An option in the settings to change both of those would be nice.
-Pinned messages/recent mentions etc.
Bigger contrast on the color scheme makes it harder to look at, and having to specifically click on the jump button instead of anywhere on the messages just makes it more annoying to navigate
-Friend list
It's been like this for a bit longer, but a lot of space is wasted by making the buttons really small, and why is there a need for a button sub-menu if they are so small anyways
https://i.imgur.com/NtkoWIJ.png
-No longer able to spoiler tag a message by selecting it and right clicking>spoiler
Self-explanatory, unsure if this is a glitch or something
-New behaviour when hovering over messages
I personally don't like the change to it and would like an option to revert to it's old behaviour
comparison:
old: https://i.imgur.com/xPgwy9g.png
new: https://i.imgur.com/TJGGgMz.png
And now for the slightly more nitpick-y parts
-The activity log in the friend list
Would prefer having a button or something to close it (kinda like how you can close the member list when in servers) since it takes up a lot of space
-The "new message" message
Now really small to the point of being barely noticeable, especially when the text is in the corner. At least having the text back in the middle would be nice

Hopefully my feedback will be considered, especially when it comes to just having more control over how the UI looks.