feedback about new MESSAGE REQUESTS and INTERFACE

I think there should be a setting "ask to DM" besides the current "allow members from servers to DM you." So users can switch between 'closed DMs', 'Open DMs' and 'ask to DM'. Message requests even tho my DMs are open is quite irritating for people who have huge contacts and frequently use the app. It'd be more convenient making message requests optional.

Lastly, why did the user profile screen change? There's this extra outline of grey(in dark mode). It looked better & compact previously, and the change has no addition. IMO^