Message everyone except selected users

It would be super helpful to be able to message everyone except specific exceptions.  The example that brought this up - it's someone's birthday, and you want to message everyone about a surprise.  Currently you have to DM everyone individually and half of them will have DM's blocked.  As a server owner or moderator I feel you should be able to get important information out to server members while hiding it from someone specific such as the server owner (who can otherwise see everything).  For now we're left to send 100 DMs that get blocked or @Everyone and alert the owner to the surprise.  The only other option is creating a secret discord for everyone except that 1 person and that is even more work :(