Video uploads too big for embedded player. Forces download. which is no fun

My problem is that video uploads don't populate into the player that shows up with other video uploads. Is there a trick to this? A size limit? Uploads are all in mp4 but videos over a certain size will only be available to download. This is no fun for anyone. I was excited for the increase to 500MB uploads for my NITRO SUB. But this really tarnishes the benefit and makes you guys at Discord look like liars. Not Nitro users, not free users, no one wants to go through a downloading process to watch a 1min cat video. Just do the math. A 1min video is a "oh cute cat!" experience... a 5min download process, opening your VLC player or whatever, then deleting it all, then going back to discord to make a comment on a video that nobody else watched is a pointless experience. And don't tell me my cat video isn't important enough, because y'all don't market your app for commercial users at all. So my cat videos are your only concern.