The new activity status

Hello
As someone who uses Discord everyday to communicate with friends and family. i am in a number of discord servers. now i have a personal one and also a more public one for my twitch. 
Now ive had problems before with discord giving out invites to people to who have a sub on twitch and then can suddenly join what ever server it could be linked too (which i have changed now ofc) but for my own Personal discord, and also the fact i have had problems with stalkers giving the activity feed and then giving the choice to “join” that server/voice channel i find an extreme invasion of privacy, its not needed and if people want their friends to join them in that server they will invite them. Instead you are forcing this and giving no way to keep it turned off for the servers.
I find this irritating and cause for concern as im sure there are alot of people who have been stalked want to have a little safe space to talk to their friends without the chance of that person jumping into their server without even a server invite link.
Please consider the risk you have taken here and give people the option to make the servers either more private or limit how this activity status to join servers/voice chats.